Wednesday, July 8, 2009

I would go out tonight, but I haven't got a stitch to wear ...

This outfit was inspired by the monochrome series the lovely Emily from The Black Apple/Some Girls Wander did last year. When I put it together last Friday at first I thought it was too matchy/matchy but then I thought I could maybe try to somewhat channel the look Emily totally rocked. I LOVED how she put together all these different shades of brown or green or red and it just worked. Although I don't think I would catch her in a plain Jane T. Oh how I wish I could steal that girl's wardrobe! I am beyond jealous of her closet!



Apparently the shirt's shade is called "evergreen" and the flats are called "jade" -- and the two shades are actually quite different. Although the detail of the skirt is kind of washed out in the photo, it's a sort of minty green with turquoise pinstripes. (I bought the skirt a million years ago and don't know its nifty shade name.)

T-shirt = American Apparel
skirt = Old Navy
flats = Urban Outfitters
locket = Urban Outfitters
purse = Kohls

Oh, and this picture was taken right after I got new blond highlights! Yay!

***
Summers, especially summers in 100+-degree Fresno, force one to simplify. You can't really jazz up your outfit with tights/leggings or cardigans so you gotta work with what you got. (Not sure exactly what this means. Uh, throw on my fav locket that I can't live without? And maybe some earrings? Or just learn to embrace the simplicity.) You could try a summer scarf but even though they're nice and lightweight, I usually would not suggest it around these parts! I mean, I understand suffering for fashion but suffering + sweating ain't a good combo.

Here's what I wore on Monday. Simple simple. I've lately been steering far clear of skinny jeans and opting for denim shorts or skirts/dresses but the weather cooled down to 93 (much better than 104 or more!) and I decided to risk my legs feeling suffocated inside the hot denim.



I really like the combo of black + brown together. I used to think it was a fashion no-no but I saw a friend pull it off years ago and now I think it's cool. So that's that.

T-shirt = American Apparel
Jeans = Urban Outfitters
Gladiator flats = Bakers
locket = Urban Outfitters

Oh, and please excuse the potted plant graveyard. John and I actually spent Tuesday evening planting new flowers! Hopefully this time around I can keep them alive!

It's so interesting figuring out what clothes are "me" and what type of statement I want to make with fashion. I want to really think about this because I hate when I buy a random dress from Target, wear it once and then hate it. Not good for my bank account or the environment!

Monday, July 6, 2009

4th Of July Math + The Science Of 'Smart Dogs'

What's the formula for the perfect road trip?

Simple!

1. Start off with some Gardetto's


2. Before you leave town pick up some new tunes.
(new Wilco + "Away We Go" soundtrack = AMAZING!)

3. Add a Johnny


4. Plus a Sarah


5. Stop for some more Gardetto's plus a couple other snacks.



= a success! What more do you need?!

John and I spent the 4th of July at the beach, road tripping to Cambria, Calif., to get some cheesy ravioli goodness from our favorite Italian restaurant, then hanging out on the sand at nearby San Simeon beach.


It was soooo relaxing. I love this beach because even though it was the 4th, there weren't too many people there. I always feel like it's our secret beach spot nobody knows about. So shhh! Don't let any one else in on the top secret location!


After a couple hours John and I hopped back in the car and drove the hour to Pismo Beach. We parked a million miles away but we were prepared to share the seashore because I had read online the town was expecting 30,000 people for its fireworks show over the pier (regular pop = approximately 8,551). Yep, there was a TON of people.

We got some ice cream cones, strolled around a bit and then staked out a spot on the sand, waiting for the sun to set and the fireworks to begin. It was such a great show! So much fun and so romantic, cuddled up, keeping warm and watching the awesome display light up the dark sky, the crowd and the waves. John and I had spent the 4th at Pismo a few years ago and I'm so glad we braved the crowd (and the traffic afterwards) to experience it again. (We had actually planned on going last year but our plans changed after someone punched a hole in John's car's windshield. Eeeech! So glad that didn't happen again!)

Even though the holiday was technically over on Sunday, I decided I wanted to celebrate with some traditional 4th of July food, just a day late, so we made corn on the cob, macaroni salad and veggie hot dogs. Oh, and there was raspberry lemonade and chips & onion dip. Yum!


Not totally sure how I feel about the "Smart Dogs" veggie hot dogs. John and I were laughing at the instructions - "Important! "Smart Dogs" cool quickly. Do not overcook." -- In other words, the instructions were saying "Heads up! If you cook these things for longer than the recommended two minutes, they will explode/melt your face. If the 'Smart Dogs' begin to glow or turn green, back away carefully. Do you hear us?! IMPORTANT! Not a second longer than two minutes! You do NOT want to mess with 'Smart Dogs'! You don't want to find out what happens if you overcook these!

"Oh, and if for some reason you do manage to cook these things correctly -- WARNING! These puppies cool quickly. So, word of advice -- eat them QUICK before you realize what you're eating and start to freak out."

John joked that "Smart Dogs" were similar to the "Happy fun ball" from SNL. Oh man, good times.

Haha, I feel kind of guilty insulting the "Smart Dogs." Maybe they'll come to life and attack me in my sleep! Ahh! Seriously though, they weren't that bad. Anything is OK if you smother it in lots of ketchup and mustard. (OMG Ketchup!!!) I just think there might be something better out there. I wondered what would happen if you try to BBQ the "Smart Dogs" but I'm kind of scared. Maybe I should just hit up Hot Dog On A Stick for a veggie corn dog next time I have a craving (that place is SOOO yum! Seriously, at first I thought they accidentally served us real hot dogs!)

Fellow veggies out there -- do you like "Smart Dogs"? Any tips? What's your favorite type of veggie hot dog? Thanks!

Anyway, enough tofu (?) talk. Hope you all had a very happy 4th of July!/regular ol' Saturday!

p.s. I seriously need to start blogging more because looking over my most recent blog posts, it seems like all I ever do is post pictures of the beach! Hmmm ... more sand & waves? YAWN! ;)
p.p.s. And apparently it's impossible for me to find a happy medium with blogging ... it's either disappear from the blogosphere for a week or more at a time -- or ramble, ramble, ramble after not posting in forever. Oh, I'm silly!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Things will be great when you're downtown

Just listen to the music of the traffic in the city
Linger on the sidewalk where the neon signs are pretty
How can you lose?
The lights are much brighter there
You can forget all your troubles
forget all your cares and go Downtown,
things'll be great when you're Downtown


A couple of weekends ago my bestie Jimaie and I hopped in my car and headed to downtown Fresno for a little photo shoot. We had talked about taking photos together for the longest time but we realized two weekends ago was the weekend because we had to take advantage of the crazy cool 80 degree weather. (Fresno is back is business with a high of 105 this Saturday.)

Check out a few photos from our adventure below. In this set of photos, I played photog and Maie was my stunning model. That girlie is always beautiful but that Saturday she was especially workin' it. I'm loving the fun girlie/punk rock outfit she put together, her makeup and her crazy curly hair! (Click over to Jimaie's blog to see some photos of yours truly.)














Thanks for the fun day Maimers! Love you!

Friday, June 19, 2009

sweet dreams

A couple of months ago John and I got our very first bed set. Yay! I feel so grown up! And of course, I have to share it with you guys! Duh! 

When we first moved in together, four years ago last month (whoa!), John's mom generously bought us a queen sized bed. But we had no bed set. We didn't have a lot of money at the time so we put off buying a set and made due with one of my twin-sized quilts that didn't exactly fit the bed and random sheets/pillows. Oh, and no bed skirt! Ohmygosh our bed was naked all these years! So scandalous. 

And now, at the ripe ol' ages of 25 and 28, almost two years after getting married, John and I are the proud owners of a bed set! (Dude, I have NO idea why we didn't register for a bed set! Anyway.)

I've always lusted after the quilts in Anthropologie but I never ever thought one of the quilts could actually end up in my bedroom. But after deciding that it was time to take the plunge and upgrade the bedroom, I decided to check out the Anthro bedding, just for fun. And lo and behold, it was a Christmas miracle -- there was actually a set that was not too, too expensive! A miracle I tell you! 

I had originally envisioned going for a simple comforter/duvet set, something with a relaxing, serene color scheme, maybe something beachy to match our turquoise carpet. But that idea quickly flew out the window. I couldn't resist the funky, fun pattern and I just really have a thing for quilts. Somehow I was able to convince Johnny to go for it and the deal was sealed after Anthro mailed me a 15 percent off coupon for my bday month. 



And the quilt is reversible! 


quilt, bed skirt & standard shams from Anthro 
small square pillows are from Target
Oh, and we also picked up some new bamboo sheets from Target (after a recommendation from Ashley on Twitter.)

Night. I'm off to bed.  zzzz

Thursday, June 18, 2009

a birthday, the beach and a wedding

So, compared with the first week of June, the rest of the month has been pretty dull so far. I don't blame the rest of the month though -- that first week played pretty dirty, sneaking surprises up its sleeves right and left!

June 1 John and I learned our condo was being placed on a short sale and we needed to find a new home STAT!

And as if that wasn't enough excitement for the week, three days later my dad calls me up Thursday night and tells me my little sister was getting married the next evening. Whoa.
No joke.

John and I had previously planned on heading to the beach for the weekend for a family get-together with my parents and my sis and her bf, who had recently moved to the coast. My parents had rented a beach house in Aptos, Calif., and we were pumped to relax, hang out and also celebrate John's birthday on Sunday.

Soooo since we were all going to be in town anyway, my lil sis Amy and her boy Jonathan thought the timing was right for a spontaneous garden wedding. Surprise!

Friday I kind of freaked out a bit because I was stuck at work but I needed to get home and pack my bag for the weekend, clean the house a bit and finish buying John's birthday present (omg, can you say procrastinator?! Bad wifey!). Oh, and John and I also needed to drop off my BFF Jimaie's son's birthday present/keys to feed our cats and drop off keys with John's buddy before leaving town. (Don't ask why we got two people to feed our cats. Last time we got three. Shhh. Crazy cat people!)

And we somehow needed to hit the road by 3 p.m. in order to get to the wedding by 6 p.m. Omg. I had previously asked to get off of work early at 2 p.m. (before knowning about the wedding). So yeah. I was somehow supposed to get all that jazz done in an hour. Right. I don't know how I survived that day at work and wrote up two articles while freaking out about the wedding with a couple coworkers and Sassy. Crazy crazy crazy.

I left work at 1:30 p.m. and survived the most stressful day of life ever with the help of superman Johnny (who ran errands and cleaned the house) and a glass or two of champagne (I knew I kept that in the house for some reason!) Whew. And we made it on the road (with our cruiser bikes too!) by 3:23. Only a teeny bit late!

The drive was beautiful:


(I took this one on the side of the road after John got out to check the bikes, which were rattling around because of the crazy wind. And ok, fine, because our bike rack is from Target and super cheap.)


Yay! We made it to the wedding just on time! It was a simple, intimate ceremony performed by Jonathan's cousin, a former minister, in the backyard of Jonathan's aunt's house in Watsonville, Calif. Their garden was so beautiful and the perfect spot for the ceremony!

Here are my two favorite shots of Amy and Jonathan:


Congrats you too lovebirds! Aww, isn't my sis the cutest?!
I think it's so funny I married a John Rios and now my sister married a Jonathan Rola!


Sisters!


My mom & dad


The next day at Seacliff State Beach Park



Silly beach bums. I like that John is wearing my scarf here. Hee!


Smooch!


The Rolas


Happy birthday Johnnykins! xoxo

The night before my boy's 28th birthday my mom, sis and I made him homemade German chocolate cake. (In case you were wondering, the cake is split in half because we made half the frosting the traditional way with pecans and half with almonds b/c Jonathan is alergic to pecans.)

The gang, hanging out at the funky beach house, chowing down on some late night cake and playing "Greed," the best dice game.


Going home.


The end.

Monday, June 15, 2009

Do you think we could move into the Hello Kitty Castle?

So, the last five days of the "30 Flippin' Days of Fitness" challenge were a total FAIL WHALE. Well, I exercised once out of the last five days but that's not exactly a success. Anyway, I have the best excuse of all time. 

The afternoon after I posted my most recent post I got a text from John:

"Got a message from Sydney. Looks like we are moving. Ugh." 

Sydney is our landlord.  Johnny, the cats and I have to move because she's putting the condo we rent from her on a short sale. As everyone knows, the economy sucks ... Sydney sadly lost her job and can no longer afford her mortgage payment and so she's putting the place on a short sale. Which means John and I have to start looking for a new place ASAP because who knows how soon someone will want to buy the place. Our landlord told us potential buyers could start coming by to check out the condo as soon as two weeks. Which means we better start cleaning. 

Moving sucks. It sucks even if you want to move and are excited about a new place ... but it especially sucks if you're being basically kicked out -- and you don't want to move yet. John and I lived in our first apartment for three and a half years. We didn't stay that long because we loved the place -- but because we didn't want to move until we were sure it was a move up in the world, until we were sure it was the right place and we would absolutely love our new home. And we put off moving because moving sucks! Cleaning, packing, boxes and boxes, more cleaning, loading boxes in a U-Haul and cars, unloading, unpacking, more cleaning ... yeah, it sucks. 

John and I (Ok, especially me) have a major issue with the condo we're living in. I haven't blogged about it because it seriously makes me SO angry I don't think I could get the words out. This issue has driven me crazy. CRAZY. Ugh. I hate neighbors. Because of this issue John and I have talked about moving out -- but even though we've considered it we didn't want to have to move unless it was on our own terms. Unless we were sure it was really worth moving out. (Also, I'm not sure if it's totally OK for me to blog about it since the place is up for a short sale ???) 

And there's so many things we love about this place ... 
the vaulted ceilings/exposed beams ... having two bathrooms ... our big master bedroom ... the cheery kitchen ... the fireplace ... the french doors ... how our living room is set up ...  and I've even grown to LOVE the turquoise carpet -- it some how just works with all of our stuff and gives the place a beach-y feel ... our very own washer and dryer ... our little patio ... the area of town (right next to our favorite Target! Important stuff!)

And so even though I've practically begged John to move when the neighbor issue got to be too much, when I heard the news that we actually had to move, I swear I felt a chill go down my spine. 

I couldn't believe we had to move after only living here seven month. SEVEN MONTHS! That's it. I never even posted more pictures of the condo after this initial post. (This post has the Craigslist pictures we first saw of the place.) We haven't finished decorating ... We still need to hang our wedding pictures above the couch ... we still have a couple unpacked boxes in the office. 

This is insane. We waited three and a half years to move out of our first apartment because we were waiting to find the perfect place for us -- this place. If it took us that long to find this place ... how were we going to find the right place with just a month or two to spare? 

Ugh. I didn't want to move. Not yet. Just not ready. And who wants to help us move after they just helped us move seven months ago? Ugh Ugh Ugh.

Monday night (june 1) we just freaked out a bit and started searching and searching Craigslist.  

After living in a condo following apartment life (living on the second floor, no less), I really, really, really don't want to live in an apartment again. I'd like to be as far away from neighbors as I can and even though we now share a wall with a jerkface, it's better than having neighbors on either side of you and below/above you. I like having a bigger space and two bathrooms and all that jazz. And if we had our own backyard I could maybe convince John to let us get a pup! So I've been searching craigslist for a house to rent in our price range ... but that's easier said than done. 

Wednesday (june 3) John and I checked out two houses and drove around for an hour and a half looking for "FOR RENT" signs in a couple neighborhoods we like. A cool house from the 1920s in a cool neighborhood, that I had set my heart on, that I could totally see us being happy in, hanging out on the porch together, with a backyard (with room for a pup!) and crazy quirks ... ended up not living up to my expectations. There was something just not right about it. The living room was set up really weird -- we'd have to put the couch right next to the front door -- and the bathrooms had no counter space and the kitchen was ugly and there was no dishwasher ...  If we were going to go through the trouble of renting a house, I wanted it to be just right. Or at least have some counter space in the bathrooms.

 I spotted a house while driving around that looked cool on the outside ... like a little pueblo (John made fun of me and said it looked like a fort! ha!) ended up being totally nasty and creepy on the inside. We drove and drove around but couldn't find anything else. The night left me hopeless and depressed. I know, I know ... it had only been one day. But still. We didn't have much time! People were coming to look at our place in two weeks! 

I found another house on Craigslist that I fell in love with -- and actually got totally pumped about moving! Starting a new adventure. It was perfect ... hardwood floors, a beautiful backyard, big living room, nifty architectural details ... Only problem was there was a mother-in-law suite in the back. What's the point of paying to rent a house if there's a stranger living in your backyard? Days later John and I hadn't found anything we loved, we were feeling desperate and the house was still on Craigslist so we called back and asked to see the inside. It was gorgeous ... but the place didn't include water/garbage in the rent ... Or lawn service ... And it also didn't have a washer/dryer ... or a fridge. Or a freakin stove! What the hell. Who tries to rent a place without a stove?!?! So yeah. With the price of a stove, fridge, etc. etc. It was totally out of our price range. 

SO. I could go on and on about places we checked out ... like the house we were considering even though it was right next to the train tracks. Turns out it also had a mother-in-law suite in the backyard (apparently an old man named Vern lived back there) -- and the landlord forced us to take off our shoes when we checked it out ... even though when we walked inside we found funky, mismatched shag carpet with stains on it! Um. Yeah. And this landlord was the only one who required a $30 application fee (per person!). I don't think so. No way Jose. 

The more we checked out places, the more I compared them to our condo ... 

This blog post is already WAY too long so it's time I spilled the beans and told you there's a potential happy ending to this story. We learned on a Monday that we might have to move out and a few days later our condo already had an interested potential buyer. My mom mentioned to a couple of her coworkers that we had to move -- and two of her coworkers turned out to be interested in an investment. They drove by the complex and then asked to see the inside. 

The following Monday (June 8), just a week after we learned we had to move, my mom's friends/coworkers came to check out our place. John and I spent the night before cleaning, cleaning, cleaning, hoping our little home would be up to par. Guess our efforts paid off because the next evening they put an offer on the condo. Which means, if their offer is accepted, we get to stay in our home -- and my mom's coworkers have promised to pay to fix the issue we have with our stinky neighbor! Hooray! It would be a win-win situation ... for my mom's coworkers, our old landlord and us. 

Now we just have to wait for the offer to be approved. Wait and see if we get a happy ending. 

Or, if that doesn't work out, maybe we could move in here: 


Do you guys think we could maybe rent this place for $1000 a month? I could maybe pay $1100. I'm hoping it includes water/garbage/lawn care. And hopefully has a stove. And no funky shag stained carpet. 

Monday, June 1, 2009

Work it!



I've never ever been a big fan of working out. I have pretty much no athletic ability; the only sport I played as a kid was softball -- and what I remember about that was our team was the Hot Shots and our (awesome!) colors were hot pink and black. Oh, and at the end of the game we got a snack! Including a Capri Sun!

When my junior high P.E. class was being graded on how fast we could run a mile, I was one of the girls who instead decided to walk the entire time.  When given the option of taking P.E. or dance P.E. in high school, of course I opted to take dance P.E. for two years. Duh. (Dude, you should have seen the dance moves Jimaie and I, and the rest of our group, choreographed for Ice Cube's "You Can Do It." Freakin hilarious. And I still can't believe our dance P.E. teacher had us dance to such a scandalous song!)

During the almost five years John and I have been together we've started and stopped working out a million times. 

I've hated that it's been such a struggle, that it isn't something that comes naturally. But working out, eating right, getting fit, etc., etc. isn't about being logical. Of course the formula makes sense -- burn more calories than you're consuming. It's just not that simple. You have to make up your mind that it's something you really want, that you're going to push yourself for.

And now my workout partner in crime and I are at it again! 

Steph over at Those Corwins recently challenged the blogosphere to "30 Flippin' Days of Fitness" -- A contest that is completely relying on the honors system and is really put into place just to motivate. From May 6th through June 5th (there are 31 days in May), work out everyday for at least 30 minutes (the Shred counts as thirty). Then at the end of the month, I will post a blog asking who made it. Those people will be entered to win a bunch of goodies from my favorite etsy shops.

Dude, the promise of possibly winning Etsy goodies plus blogosphere guilt for not working out?! How could I say no?!

A big THANK YOU! to Steph for motivating me (and Johnny)! Seriously Steph, I am SO glad you proposed this challenge. I owe you big time for this! You rock my socks! 

Granted, I haven't been a perfect angel -- there's been days when I kind of phoned it in on "The Thirty Day Shred" (Don't hit me Jillian! Nooooo!) and there's there's been many days where I've done much more walking than jogging on my 30 min walk/jogs around the block. 

I've also missed six days out of the first 25 challenge days. But that's still a 76 percent! A C+! And I'm hoping to finish the last five days of the challenge STRONG!, wrapping up the whole thang with a 24/30, which = a B-! 80 percent! 

One thing that's helped is buying a new sports bra and four new workout tank tops at Old Navy (turquoise, dark blue, gray and hot pink) -- feeling semi-cute is way better than working out in a baggy old white T-shirt! 

It's also really helped having John's support along the way. Working out is much better with a buddy/hubby by your side! 

Although I've always considered working out a horrible chore, I am now actually enjoying it (sometimes. Other times I want to punch Jillian Michaels in her flat stomach.). Even though I'm not sure I've actually lost weight I just feel way better about myself on the days I work out. And when I don't work out, I seriously miss it. After the challenge is over I hope to continuing working out at least five days a week. 

Here's me and Johnny after one of the best workouts of the challenge, maybe the best workout I've ever had. EVER. 

 
I finally understood why people love to run. While jogging on the treadmill at the gym one Saturday during the challenge, I experienced a runners high! Ohmygosh! Previously times I've gotten off the treadmill after a walk/jog and run to the parking lot, feeling like I could float on air -- I thought this was a runner's high. Maybe so, but I've never felt like this, just totally blissed out and amazing and awesome -- while running! I hate running! What was going on?! I remember looking over at John, on the treadmill next to me, and I couldn't stop smiling at him! Crazy. 

I actually haven't been back to the gym since that Saturday;  I've been spending my time doing workout DVDs and walking/jogging at night around the block, soaking up the perfect Fresno nights before it becomes truly horrible and 95 degrees at 10 p.m. But I want to go back soon! I want to find that runner's high again! It gave me hope that one day I could actually be a runner. 

Five days left of the challenge! Let's do it! Did you join Steph's challenge? How's it been going for you? If not, do you work out regularly? What do your workouts consist of? How do you stay motivated? 

Here's the breakdown of the challenge so far: 

1. Thursday, May 7 ... 30 mins Billy Blanks Tae Bo:Total Body Fat Blaster
2. Friday, May 8 ... 30 mins Taebo
3. Saturday, May 9 ... Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 
4. Sunday, May 10 ... 30 min walk
5. Monday, May 11 ...  FAIL WHALE 
6. Tuesday, May 12 ... Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 
7. Wednesday, May 13 ...Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 
8. Thursday, May 14 ... 30 min Taebo
9. Friday, May 15 ... 30 min walk/jog
10. Saturday, May 16 ... 30 min walk/jog 
11. Sunday, May 17 ... Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 
12. Monday, May 18 ... Taebo
14. Wednesday, May 20 ...  OMG ADAM LAMBERT LOST IDOL! = FAIL WHALE 
15. Thursday, May 21 ... Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 
16. Friday, May 22 ... 30 min walk/jog
17. Saturday, May 23 ... 30 min walk
18. Sunday, May 24 ... FAIL 
19. Monday, May 25 ... walk/ jog 
20. Tuesday, May 26 ... Taebo
21. Wednesday May 27 ... FAIL 
22. Thursday May 28 .... FAIL
23 Friday May 29 ... FAIL 
24 Saturday May 30 ... 30 min walk
25 Sunday May 31 ... Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred  
 
Five days to go!